I'm Angela Shelton ~ Rebel with a Cause

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Searching for Angela Shelton is too important, too meaningful, too touching, TOO TERRIFIC to been seen casually. From the first frame to the last I was in turn riveted, weepy, drained, shattered, hopeful…and plenty of other emotions in between. You are one remarkable, talented lady. It took enormous courage, persistence, and honesty to pull this off. Most importantly, you managed to keep your sense of humor, and at the same time show a willingness to forgive. What an unbeatable combo! Congratulations! This film should be shown in every home, in every country, in the world. Bravo! Jake Eberts, producer


Though she takes on serious issues, Angela Shelton is joyous, irreverent, funny, and feisty!
ELLEN BASS, author of The Courage to Heal

With relentless honesty, humor and vitality, Angela Shelton opens the door for countless others to stop denying their pain, tell their stories, and join together in the revolutionary act of getting well and loving themselves. CHARLOTTE SOPHIA KASL, author of Women, Sex, and Addiction and Power, If the Buddha Dated

Angela Shelton is amazing. She speaks for every abused person who has lived through the same hell. ~ Rosie O’Donnell

Angela Shelton is the most amazing woman I know besides my mom. She made me laugh and cry and I’m a guy. I’m going to treat women better all because of Angela Shelton. ~Jamie Kennedy, comedian

An inspiring, heart-breaking, and fascinating cross-country journey by a survivor and filmmaker who set out to survey American women through the lens of every woman she could find who shared her name. Though she takes on serious issues, Angela Shelton is joyous, irreverent, funny, and feisty. ~Ellen Bass, author of Courage to Heal.

Angela Shelton holds important information for those of us providing services to people that have been sexually assaulted.  She speaks introspectively of her experience as well as what she learned through her research while filmmaking.  As a beloved voice of sexual assault and incest survivors, her candid truth-telling creates powerful shockwaves through her audiences.  She moves, stirs and leaves behind lasting lessons for all who hear her speak. Ecoee Rooney, MSN, RN, SANE-A.  Director, Education/Staff Development Interim LSU Public Hospital from the SANE nurses conference (Sexual Assault Nurse Examiners) SANE-SART (www.sane-sart.com)

Angela Shelton was the highlight of the weekend.  Although the write-up in the program guide made me a little leary of the presentation, I stayed and listened to this strong willed woman talk about overcoming trauma and finding a way to find laughter, joy and happiness.  This was presentation was a wild ride.  Ms. Shelton had an incredible story to tell and very helpful advise on moving forward.  She did it with humor without demeaning anyone.  She had the room rolling with laughter.  Let me tell you, that was a rough room.  I’m a fan! Michael Baumann, male survivor of priest abuse

Angela Shelton has the qualities I admire in anybody who is making a difference.  Angela is an agent for change, a catalyst, an alchemist.  Angela has made her private story our public story and her transformation our transformation. ~ Eileen King from Justice for Children

Excellent presentation. ~ Dustin Mohr, Peterson Air Force Base

Searching for Angela Shelton is an incredibly powerful film. I highly recommend it. I happened to watch it the day after I finished reading “The Kite Runner.” Both are courageous, revealing, heartbreaking, inspirational and true pathways to redemption. Take the time to see it. Larry Siegel

We gave Angela the Voice of Courage Award I knew she had done a remarkable, brave, courageous thing by making her documentary. But since I have come to know just what a force she is in the world. Angela is an unstoppable force for honor, justice, courage. By finding her voice she has given permission to tens of thousands of survivors to say, ‘me too, it happened to me….’ and thus begin there own journey of healing and recovering. As an organization that focus’ on teaching responsible adults how to prevent, recognize and react responsibly we realize there are many aspects of the complicated issue of child sexual abuse we do not cover. And for the support, healing and how to become a healthy viable ‘force’ in the world, with honor, we point to Angela Shelton! ~ Anne Lee, Founder, President & CEO of Darkness to Light

Angela’s words will reach into your soul and shake you awake! She is fierce and bold and her passion to put a face on issues like domestic violence and child sexual abuse is compelling and necessary. Angela begs us with brilliant writing to ask ourselves what more we can do to unveil the truth around this topic. ~ Jessica Weiner, Self-Esteem Expert and Author of “Life Doesn’t Begin 5 Pounds From Now” and “A Very Hungry Girl”

Bold, brave, honest and inspiring, “Finding Angela Shelton” continues to promote awareness and healing to the masses. Angela’s self-professed “big mouth” is changing the world one survivor at a time…I hope she never shuts up! ~ Erin Weed, Founder of Girls Fight Back

With relentless honesty, humor and vitality, Angela Shelton combines the voices of other Angela Sheltons to expose the depths of sexual and physical abuse toward women that pervades the America family. Angela Shelton opens the door for countless others to stop denying their pain, tell their stories, and join together in the revolutionary act of getting well and loving themselves. What started as a road trip to interview a cross section of women—all named Angela Shelton—turned into a tsunami of people confronting the horror of abuse. One wonders if we should stop worrying so much about terrorists crossing our borders, and focus on the terrorism that exists on a daily basis in millions of American homes. Read this book and understand why. ~Charlotte Sophia Kasl, author of Women, Sex, and Addiction: A Search for Love and Power, If the Buddha Dated, and Many Roads, One Journey, Moving Beyond the Twelve Steps

Angela Shelton is a Godsend~Marcus Allen

Angela has a great personality and makes sexual abuse awareness fun! ~ Marchele McCarthy from advocates aba.org

I have encountered an angel in Angela. ~  Sheryl McMullen from the Air Force

Angela Shelton may be the first woman in history to turn a horrific childhood into a movement so full of hope and inspiration, even people who haven’t suffered any form of child abuse want to get involved. In her first book, Angela describes suffering through the type of violence that usually leads to a lifetime of debilitating dysfunction. Angela defied the odds and turned her pain into real power. If you want to understand how the human spirit can thrive in the face of unimaginable childhood trauma! ~Wendy Murphy, Author, And Justice For Some

Angela is that rare individual with the power to take something tragic and make it into an inspiring call to action.  Through her film and relentless activism, she made her story a personal example of what it means to be a survivor of abuse.  I worked with her for 5 years and have seen firsthand the many lives she has touched in her campaigns.  Angela gave me, and many like me, the opportunity to find our own voices and now we speak out against abuse in all it’s forms with confidence.  Today, I have two organizations that focus on education and advocacy for abuse survivors.  This wouldn’t have been possible without Angela’s mentorship.  Searching For Angela Shelton is an educational tool used by me and many organizations like my own, to encourage survivors everywhere to come forward and break the silence.  With support and love, we can break the silence together. Ophelia de Serres (Wo)Men Speak Out
Angela Shelton inspires people of all ages to shatter the silence and create a world without violence! ~Angela Rose, Founder and Executive Director – PAVE: Promoting Awareness, Victim Empowerment

Angela’s words will reach into your soul and shake you awake! She is fierce and bold and her passion to put a face on issues like domestic violence and child sexual abuse is compelling and necessary. Angela begs us with brilliant writing to ask ourselves what more we can do to unveil the truth around this topic. ~Jessica Weiner, Self-Esteem Expert and Author of “Life Doesn’t Begin 5 Pounds From Now” and “A Very Hungry Girl”

Angela means to start a revolution, one where life will be easier and safer for abused kids, and a lot more dangerous for sexual predators. And, it’s about time. ~Mary Kelly, Executive Coach

Finding Angela Shelton is well-written, engaging and a strong statement on why it is critical to find and USE your voice if we are ever going to end violence against women. ~Rita Smith, Executive Director, National Coalition Against Domestic Violence

I am overwhelmed and ever so grateful for that little girl who grew up to be Angela Shelton, the courageous young woman who persevered and found her own way through the tapestry of life who has woven a beautiful cloak of self worth and value that she shares with all who have been abused. I feel the essence of Angela Shelton that is much more than that of one brave woman. It is a power that covers the entire earth giving each of us encouragement to leave behind everything that keeps us less-than. Finding Angela Shelton should be required reading in all high schools and colleges. It should be required reading for all social workers and law enforcement officers. I am so very proud of Angela Shelton and to share in the healing she brings to us all. ~Mary Lemons , BA, CHTP; Angela’s former social worker and now friend. Inner Awakenings | www.healingwholeself.net

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  • mcqueen09
    Angela "Freebird"
    You are a truly inspiring, unique lady. You truly touched my life this weekend in St. Louis. I am a parent of a BACA child and without them she wouldn't have come as far as she has. They truly gave me back my little girl. She is the reason her Dad (step-dad) and I became a part of the Family, to pay it forward! Although I am only a supporter, my family has been with BACA for 2yrs now and WOW is all I can say. I couldn't wait to get home to share your story with my girl. She wants your book and anything else you have that she can use to help other children. I reminded her...baby steps; she was 8 when the abuse started and is now 15 and just this past November told her story. She sees you as an inspiration and role-model. Before I cry any harder while typing this, I will end it here. Thanks isn't big enough. Much love to you sister. McQueen---Northeast Kansas Chapter
  • unheardnomore
    Behind closed doors and under beds are where children check for monsters, little do they know, under the bed is perhaps the safest place for them. There are such things as monsters, as it turns out, but not in the shadows. People chat with them in broad daylight all of the time as it is, blissfully unaware of the danger that stands in front of them. It doesn’t help that most monsters are attractive, mother nature has custom fit them to exist in the world as one of us. Consipiracy? No, survival of the fittest. Those that are not perfect for the job are taken out. Prison.
    I have personally lived with these monsters, that’s how I know they exist. We are the monsters. Not all of us of course, but enough. Enough to make a difference.
    Over the years many try to cope with the beasts, people don’t understand that the monsters are past saving.
    And so, after living with a monster for fourteen years, my family left my biological father. We went across the country, and yet we were followed. The monster tracked us, dogged us, threatened, and as a final blow he took one of our own and defiled him.
    My biological father sexually assaulted my autistic twelve year old brother to such an extent that in a way, death is better than living with what has happened. It was done with a sick malice and obsession that made me moan and weep for hours, clinging to my mother like I myself was twelve. What you are about to read may offend some. Good. Perhaps it will provoke action.
    In the winter of 2009, I bid my brother a firm goodbye. With his head bobbing up and down, he smiled and asked if I would miss him. I said nothing. I hate lying, so it’s only natural. Instead I waved him off, and headed to school. A week after he returned home, I came down with an eye infection. On the way to a visit to the doctor, I found out what had happened.
    “Come on, Buddy” he crooned. I stepped back, nodding profusely, trying to stop him. So dark, and cold. I want to go into the motel but I know what will happen. My father calls again, patting his legs like he does when Miranda is around. I love Miranda. She’s so nice, and treats me the same as she does everyone else. Still patting his knee. I wonder if he really is trying to surprise me. Maybe Miranda is in there waiting for me. Pat, pat. “C’mon, we’re going to have a sleepover and watch movies, I promise to make you some popcorn, just come on in.” I look around. I don’t want to go, I want to run and run and never ever look back. Patting his knees, “Jon,” Deeper voice “Come on, Jon. Follow daddy or I’ll have to give you a spanking.” Oh, spankings are bad. I don’t want one of those. Walking up to him, bitter smile. Maybe he’s not lying?
    Slam, bolt, lock, click, click. The light flutters. It’s an old room. One bed. I hate sleeping in one bed, daddy hugs too tight. I turn, but the door is closed. I reach, but I’m pulled away. I struggle, but I am put down. I scream, but I am not answered. I appologise, but daddy is busy. So is Shawn, he holds me up so that I don’t fall down, daddy says it’s bad to fall. It’s cold again now that my cloths are gone. I shiver, daddy likes it when I do that. My cloths are in the trash. Maybe I can get to them so that I can be warm. This is so uncomfortable. Click, whir, click, whir. The camera goes and goes. Daddy tries to stoop, but I kick at him. “Stay still, son. And shutup!” He growls, slugging my tummy hard. I throw up. “Ugh” He groans. I say I’m sorry. I have to be good for him. Sorry, sorry, sorry, I am very sorry I didn’t mean it daddy I’m sorry. I choke, gag, cry. Slap. I had better stop. I clench my hands, wringing them out every few seconds. This is wrong. I know it’s wrong. Mom and Toban are going to cry. I’m making them sad right now. I shouldn’t have gone into the room. Miranda wasn’t there, she’s in Italy. I wish she was. She says she likes me. I hope she wouldn’t love me like daddy does.
    Shawn sits on the scrappy couch. Daddy says to sit on his face, its gross and I don’t like it. He licks me all over and its cold again. I don’t like it. I jump down and say no, but daddy runs at me so I scramble back up. Shawn makes me pee in his mouth.
    I was bad today, there wasn’t any dinner after daddy and Shawn got done playing.
    Morning. Shawn is gone. He said he had to go home, and I’m happy that he did. I’m going to my meme’s house today. I like her a lot. She is my friend, and she can help me with daddy. He is a bully I think, because he hits me and touches my privates. Those are mine and I don’t like it. It makes me sad and confused. Why would he do that? I told him to stop. He isn’t very nice at all.
    Meme’s was okay. I like my cousins, daddy was gone a while so we didn’t get to play. I don’t mind.
    Back on the road. Daddy makes me sit up front, he says it helps me be a big boy. And I am a big boy so I do it. Gas, we need some gas. Stop to fill up. Parking lot, store, candy, gum, hall, bathroom. Pinching and it hurts really bad. The floor is sticky, I wonder if someone peed on it. I can’t breathe, I have t o breathe, there’s a black ring. Sorry daddy. I tried to stay awake for you because you love me.
    This is a true story. I am a real person. The characters are real. It happens.
    Death is an understatement to what should happen to this man. This monster. E-mail Unheardnomore@live.com to find out how to help
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