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		<title>By: Holly Ord</title>
		<link>http://angelashelton.com/meet-husbands/comment-page-1#comment-19</link>
		<dc:creator>Holly Ord</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 08 Feb 2009 22:22:50 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>First of all, Julie, I hope you read this because there IS a children&#039;s book out there that is about a princess who loves herself, her career (as a flight attendant), her friends (who she threw parties for when they got engaged and married to their princes), and she loved her kingdom... all by herself.  The ending shows the princess, Princess Bubble, who comes out of the story with so much love for herself that she didn&#039;t need or want a man at all.  I think it is a much more appropriate children&#039;s fairytale and not only that, but it should definitely be read by most adult women.  So many of us forget that a viable, perfectly okay and sometimes preferable situation is to not have a man (or a woman) in our lives romantically at all.

I wrote a book review of the book, it&#039;s called Princess Bubble. You can read the review here : http://menstrualpoetry.com/not-all-princesses-need-prince

Moving on...

I think the stigma that women run into the most is that frankly, so many of us are afraid to be alone.  Afraid to be the &quot;crazy cat lady&quot; on the block or be the old woman making herself lunch and sitting quietly at her kitchen table staring down into her meal and ultimately, dying... alone.  But what we don&#039;t realize is as weird as it may sound, that if we do marry, women typically live longer than men anyway and eventually, we are alone, without relationship.  The trick is to be in love with yourself.  To look in the mirror and love what you see, to love yourself as a person because then, you don&#039;t settle for the guys you know aren&#039;t going anywhere or who you can&#039;t enjoy time with.  You won&#039;t see those guys anymore, like you said in this post.  Ultimately, we need to be good with ourselves because after all the shit, we&#039;re all we have so you better do your best with what you&#039;ve got.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>First of all, Julie, I hope you read this because there IS a children&#8217;s book out there that is about a princess who loves herself, her career (as a flight attendant), her friends (who she threw parties for when they got engaged and married to their princes), and she loved her kingdom&#8230; all by herself.  The ending shows the princess, Princess Bubble, who comes out of the story with so much love for herself that she didn&#8217;t need or want a man at all.  I think it is a much more appropriate children&#8217;s fairytale and not only that, but it should definitely be read by most adult women.  So many of us forget that a viable, perfectly okay and sometimes preferable situation is to not have a man (or a woman) in our lives romantically at all.</p>
<p>I wrote a book review of the book, it&#8217;s called Princess Bubble. You can read the review here : <a href="http://menstrualpoetry.com/not-all-princesses-need-prince" rel="nofollow">http://menstrualpoetry.com/not-all-princesses-need-prince</a></p>
<p>Moving on&#8230;</p>
<p>I think the stigma that women run into the most is that frankly, so many of us are afraid to be alone.  Afraid to be the &#8220;crazy cat lady&#8221; on the block or be the old woman making herself lunch and sitting quietly at her kitchen table staring down into her meal and ultimately, dying&#8230; alone.  But what we don&#8217;t realize is as weird as it may sound, that if we do marry, women typically live longer than men anyway and eventually, we are alone, without relationship.  The trick is to be in love with yourself.  To look in the mirror and love what you see, to love yourself as a person because then, you don&#8217;t settle for the guys you know aren&#8217;t going anywhere or who you can&#8217;t enjoy time with.  You won&#8217;t see those guys anymore, like you said in this post.  Ultimately, we need to be good with ourselves because after all the shit, we&#8217;re all we have so you better do your best with what you&#8217;ve got.</p>
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		<title>By: Julie Federico</title>
		<link>http://angelashelton.com/meet-husbands/comment-page-1#comment-18</link>
		<dc:creator>Julie Federico</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 07 Feb 2009 23:37:24 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Angela
The 1/2 woman whole woman story was great.  Can you write a children&#039;s book on this?  So many of the stories I read my daughters are the girls gets the prince and they live happlily ever after.  I use to change the endings, but now my 6 year old can read, so this is no good any more.  My favorite book is the Paper Bag Princess by Robert Munch.  She leaves the Prince for a delightful life. Amen.
Thanks for your words of wisdom.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Angela<br />
The 1/2 woman whole woman story was great.  Can you write a children&#8217;s book on this?  So many of the stories I read my daughters are the girls gets the prince and they live happlily ever after.  I use to change the endings, but now my 6 year old can read, so this is no good any more.  My favorite book is the Paper Bag Princess by Robert Munch.  She leaves the Prince for a delightful life. Amen.<br />
Thanks for your words of wisdom.</p>
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